| Location | Sauchie, Clackmannanshire |
| Age | 12 days |
| Cause of Death | Premature Birth |
| Date of Birth | 12/04/2009 |
| Date of Death | 24/04/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,660 since 27/05/2009 |
| Creator |
Miley Starr Margaret Hutcheon 12th april 09 2.57am 1lb 6oz.
Born at 23weeks 5day.
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Mileyβs Story.
I found out I was pregnant just before Christmas 08, it was a big shock but got use to it. My pregnancy I had really bad sickness that stopped about 5month mark. I had my 2 scans and everything was good with them. On wed 8th April I had my doctor appointment, in the morning I noticed a small bit of blood so at my appointment I told her about it, but she told me not to worry it was normal!! So I went home thinking everything was okay!! On the Thursday 9th April it happened again so a went back to the doctor and she says it sounds like a kidney infection to hand in a urine sample to confirm that. Waited to hear back to see if it was. As it was the Easter weekend the Doctor was closed for the long weekend. So didnβt hear back so thought everything was okay!! Friday 10th April everything seemed normal, no more blood.
On the Saturday 11th April thatβs when everything went wrong!! I was 23weeks and 5days pregnant, I started getting really bad pains in my stomach. I didnβt know what was going on so I went up to the hospital. As I arrived at the hospital I felt all wet I looked down and I was covered in blood, I was so scared I thought I was losing my baby before I even got to met him\her!! I got put in a room and thatβs when the doctor told me I was in labour and there was nothing they could do to stop it!! That was 2am, 57mins later my baby was here. They took my baby straight to the Neo natal intensive care unit. An hour later I found out I had a baby girl weighing 680g-1lb 6oz. I got up to see her, there were tubes and wires all over her but she was perfect.
I spoke to the consultant, and was told Miley was extremely premature and we would need to take it hour by hour. The next couple of days were hard watch Miley going up and down hill, and getting blood and all the scans. We got to the 7day mark and I thought everything was going to be okay, Miley was doing so well. I love her so much, watching her change she was beautiful . I got to change Mileyβs nappy and wash her wee face. Miley was having problems with putting the lines in, so we were told that Miley was going to be transferred to Yorkhill children hospital to get a central line in. We waited to hear when she was getting transferred, that was going to happen on the Wednesday 22nd April.
Tuesday 21st April Miley was still having problems with getting the lines in. They had lost all access so she wasnβt getting all the medication she needed. So the transfer was put forward to now. Miley got a Police escort to Yorkhill because she really needed her lines in. Miley arrived at Yorkhill and was sent straight down to get the operation to get the central line in. We got up to see her after the operation she looked so perfect, it was weird at first cause Miley was a really moveable baby, and seeing her after the operation scared me cause she was just lying there.
Two days past and she seemed to be move again, when a think of it now I remember it wasnβt the same movement as before it was more of an adulated movement. Miley was getting more scans of her head to see if everything was still the same, as she had a small bleed when we were in Stirling hospital. On the 24th April she had a really bad night with her breathing so had to be put on the full ventilation. The consultant came round to see us with the result of Mileyβs head scan Thatβs when my world ended!! The consultant took us in to a room and told us Miley had a big bleed in the brain and that if she survived she would have no quality of life!! She was so perfect you would never think to look at her that there was something wrong. So we had the hardest thing in the world to decide, do we keep her alive and for her to have no quality of life and probable be in and out hospital most of her life and be feed by a tube and not be able to see or hear!! That no life she should have to live! So we decided to turn off her machines and let her go play with the angels!! It was the hardest thing in my life I have ever had to do! I love my little star so much and didnβt want to see her go through any more pain.
Miley got put in to her own room so that all of the family could come and see my beautiful baby girl. Everyone got to hold her, this was the first time I got a proper hold of my baby and it was so special I will never forget that feeling. The doctor came in and I said it was time so he took the tube from her mouth and Miley died in my arms at 16.30pm on the 24th April 09, 12 days old. They 12days where the best days of my life. I will never forget how brave and strong my little star was, I am so proud to call her my daughter . I miss her so much, not a day goes by I donβt think about her.
Miley was laid to rest on the 28th April 09 another really sad day. A Love and miss her so much, wish she could be here with me. I am so lucky I have had the support of my family and friend. Donβt think I would be here if it wasnβt for there support.
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I love you so much Miley, Mummy will be with you one day. My little star!
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Tonight I'll look up to the sky
And hope to see a star
A beautifull baby girl called Miley
Who should never be so far
The short time that our Miley lived
will never be forgotten
Her strength, her fight, her will to live
O'Lord, why be so rotten
She took God's hand and went to Heaven
And left us all to suffer
She did not mean to cause this pain
Especially to her mother!
Love Papa.
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Mummy's little star, will love you forever.
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MILEY
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Miley
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MILEY
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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Yes it is true that I never got to see all that this world holds
The flowers, trees, grass or a bright sunny day
But in my heart I have seen all of these things, even in my short time
It is also true that I never got to feel the many things that you take for granted
The snow on my face on a cold December day
Finger paints and crayons I will never hold in my hands
But I did feel the loving arms of my mother and father cradling me gently.
I never got to hear all the sounds that make most hearts sing
The laughter of a loved one or the sweet song of a bird.
But the soft touch of my mother's hands shouts to me all of this and more.
I would never have known the joy of running through a field of flowers
Never would I roll down the side of a hill to dizzy to stand
Hide and seek, tag and dodge ball I would have missed
In my mind I will do all of these things and more.
You all may see it as me missing out on all of these things by leaving you so soon
But where I am going I will do, see and hear everything you do and more
All of the people that have passed before me are waiting to make that come true
I will always think of good things, for in my short time that is all I know.
So don't cry for me
I am doing all that you have all wished for me,
and from my time here with you
I will know nothing but love and that I will take with me.
I'm just a little baby
who didn't quite make it there;
I went straight to be with Jesus
but I'm waiting for you here.
Don't you fret about me mommy
I'm of all God's most blessed
I'd have loved to stay there with you
but Heavenly Father knows what's best.
Many who dwell here where I live
waited years to enter in,
they struggled through a world of sorrow
and their lives were marred with sin.
So sweet mommy don't be sad,
wipe those tears and chase the gloom,
I went straight to be with Jesus,
from my lovely mothers womb.
Thank you for the life you gave me,
it was brief but don't complain;
I have all of heaven's glory
suffering none of the world's pain.
Thank you for the name you gave me,
I'm thankful for all you've done.
I'll be waiting here for you
in heaven up above.
I would have loved to stay with you,
And lived life by your side,
But the Lord has called me home,
I know it's hard to understand why.
Thank you mommy for making me,
You made me out of love,
I can't wait for the day I see you again
So you can see what I've become.
I'm an angel here in heaven,
The Lord's here by my side,
He wants me to let you know
He's sorry he made you cry.
He has a plan for me up here,
And a plan for you here too,
Someday we'll be together again,
And this I know is true.
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PRINCESS MILEY
mickey mouse xx
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sweet dreams angel miley xxxxxxxx
Daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mama please don't cry~
"Cause I am in the arms of Jesus
and He sings me lullabies."
Please, try not to question God,
Don't think he is unkind
Don't think He sent me to you,
and then He changed his mind.
You see, I am a special child,
and I'm needed up above
I'm the special gift you gave Him,
the product of your love.
I'll always be there with you
and watch the sky at night,
Find the brightest star that's gleaming,
That's my halo's brilliant light.
You'll see me in the morning frost,
that mists your window pane.
That's me in the summer showers,
I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a little breeze,
from a gentle wind that blows
That's me, I'll be there,
planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing,
and your heart feels a little tug,
That's me, I'll be there,
giving your heart a hug.
So Daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mama don't you cry.
I'm in the arms of Jesus
and He sings me lullabies.
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SLEEP TIGHT LITTLE ANGEL
Don’t let them say I wasn’t born,
That something stopped my heart
I felt each tender squeeze you gave,
I’ve loved you from the start.
Although my body you can’t hold
It doesn’t mean I’m gone
This world was worthy, not of me
God chose that I move on.
I know the pain that drowns your soul,
What you are forced to face
You have my word, I’ll fill your arms,
Someday we will embrace.
You’ll hear that it was meant to be,
God doesn’t make mistakes
But that wont soften your worst blow,
Or make your heart not ache.
I’m watching over all you do,
Another child you’ll bear
Believe me when I say to you,
That I am always there.
There will come a time, I promise you,
When you will hold my hand,
Stroke my face and kiss my lips
And then you’ll understand.
Although I’ve never breathed your air,
Or gazed into your eyes
That doesn’t mean I never was,
An Angel never dies.
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Love Mary xxxx
Oh Miley... xxx
What an ANGEL..
Such a Star made for heaven. Made of the finest Gold, SO fine that it could never be reproduced in any way whatsoever!! What a SUPERSTAR! Yes, too good for this earth - this earth is so full of difficult paths. Nobody knows which path to take. You have taken the finest path to the most exceptional place imaginable. God Bless You MILEY. All my love, Andrea xxxx
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